Monday, January 4, 2010

Honesty and self-confidence

Everyone has his\her own belief about what are the most important qualities a person should have. Some people believe that humour and intelligence are the most qualities that a person should have. However, other people say the opposite. Therefore, each person has his\her own choices to search for different characteristic, which can be fit his\her personality. Unfortunately, few people see that bad qualities are necessary such as arrogance. In my opinion, the most two crucial are honesty and self-confidence.

First, honesty is one quality a person should possess. If anyone has this characteristic, it will lead to many advantages. It will support the relationships one has with others. As a result, others will trust he\she all the time. Honesty can help you to avoid many problems because when people lie, they fall in many troubles with others. Hence, honesty refers to courage because the real meaning of courage is to tell the truth always without being afraid, and handle consequences bravely. For this reason, many people do not want to put themselves in many problems when they do any mistakes.

Second, a characteristic that is also very significant for everyone is self-confidence. It is important because it shows the strong personality for people who truly have this quality. Moreover, it leads people who have that quality to gain courage, success, happiness, and independent. By this cause, people will be fully satisfied. In addition, people who have self-confidence are always optimistic. When they lose or fail in something, they will not be frustrated. On the other hand, they will try again until they reach their goals. For example, a year ago, I failed in course because it was very hard to me. Nevertheless, I took it again and studied it very hard until I took A in that course.

To conclude, it is obvious to all of us that honesty and self-confidence are not only significant traits, but also they are beautiful aspect of human being. Furthermore, they will face fewer problems than others will. Personally, I advice all people to work on and improve their weakness in personality. Therefore, if they have any bad qualities such as lying, shyness, and arrogance, they should change these characteristics. Always, continuous improvement or change is better than nothing to do is.